Life is too short to be quick

By : Nanduni Uthpala


         She felt lonely but smart and attractive enough to offer happiness to others. She was a determined girl who wanted to become successful. Unfortunately, this ambition gave rise to an oblivious mind. She forgot all the people who loved her. She lost her mind. This happened when she started to look at other people’s lives. All of their drama of sheer happiness, ravishing love life, fame, and success defined, by all means, allowed her to reconsider whether to live this hideous life or not. Jealousy arose in her. It spread like cancer while devastating her body. 

Eventually, it made her sick. She wanted to be like them. She wanted to bid farewell to her old life, but it was hard. She struggled and fell into depression. The depressed mind murmured disheartening words. They were suicidal thoughts. She planned to commit suicide. It shouldn’t give her enough time to rethink. So, she bought a highly toxic herbicide from a disabled vendor. The vendor had a small stock of items, but he had a bunch of customers. They valued his courage. Her heart sank when she saw the slogan on his shirt.” Life is too short, to be quick”. On her way home, she emptied the bottle containing the herbicide into the river. To let go of that gruesome person, she allowed time to heal her.

Time is the weapon. Few seconds of your time spared to suicidal thoughts- a life killer it might be. Yet, it's fascinating to see some young minds like her, attempting to see the beauty of life even after suicidal thoughts. Since we were babies, we have been actors on stage- around the stage known as the earth. We cooed and smiled at the warmer cuddles of our mothers, but we weren't aware of the later times. We were lucky. But some of us couldn't experience the childhood we ought to have and are still struggling to live. No matter what the start is, we all fall into that pit called depression.

Again Time it is. It happens at some time in your life, either to kill you or to live like a legend. But sparing a month or two to get rid of the suicidal thoughts, may become years of your hard work to success. Because once you pass that hurdle, there's no way back.

Psychologists say that people need to talk about their problems to someone else. But you'll do better if you keep watching others in silence and gather your thoughts to beat your downfall.



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